If the loser smiles after losing the game, the winner will lose the pleasure of his victory. That's the power of smile.....!
Wednesday, 27 February 2013
No matter how strong we are inside, there is always a part of us that longs for love, care and affection and we get sad when we don’t get that. But, what we have to remember is that we cannot force others to love or care for us. These feelings should come naturally. During these moments when we feel sad and lonely, we need to tune in to our higher self and not go down into the path of darkness.!
Light seems so much more valuable when you have been trapped in the dark; air seems so much more valuable when you have been suffocating; love seems so much more valuable when you have been ignored; words seem so much more valuable when you have been trapped in painful silence; things we take for granted seem so much more valuable when we have been deprived of them.!
Monday, 25 February 2013
We need to try to believe in ourselves before we actually do. We must believe that we are strong, we have been through a lot and we are strong enough now to grow from here and in a decent kind loving manner.
We are able. We can do all that there needs to be done to change and grow from here - believe and if you don't believe then for now, just pretend and keep on going forward. You will see the light one day and it won't be that far away as long as you keep plodding forward, one step at a time, tear by tear, smile by smile, we get there.
We are worthy simply because all people deserve better than abuse. We were all born to be happy and strong enough to deal with the ordeals and challenges of life.
Strong, capable and worthy, able to see our life through with courage and the strength to reverse the wrongs of the past to positives of the future.!
Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer. When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.!
Single or taken, rich or poor, wife or husband, child or adult, no matter who you are you shouldn't have to want to impress anyone or have to impress anyone. Be yourself! Be the loving gentle forgiving person you were born to be and you will be satisfied with yourself.
Believe me, to feel that you are you, and that you can really look yourself in the mirror and love yourself in a spiritual sense, you don't need to put on any act no matter who you are with or where you are - the best way for you to be you, "Is for you to be, only you.!"
We deceive our own self and other people by faking our life and agreeing with other peoples opinions when our hearts don't agree. If we do this we will never ever be happy and content because we are daily living a lie. To live our life faking it we are deliberately making our own self miserable.
Always be you at all times, everywhere. Remember always that only you can be you. So don't copy anyone else or you loose your special individuality.!
There are some people who always seem angry and continuously look for conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting isn’t with you, it is with themselves.!
The trouble with these people who always have strange issues is that every now and then we run into them and for no reason whatsoever they attack us verbally, leaving us wondering just whats going on in their heads. Real or imaginary are the thoughts of their minds, they are lost.
Another problem is that those who have the issues and problems sometimes in an effort to lie to themselves and to others they find someone else to blame for their craziness and weird ways. Denying the facts and the truth will simply keep them the way that they are because they will never face the real truth about themself.!
Sunday, 24 February 2013
Saturday, 23 February 2013
In life, there are lots of people watching our next move, desperately waiting for us to fail and even praying for us to give up, but don’t mind them. It just doubles the fun of living and surviving. Let’s keep this in our mind that failures and problems are not things we should be scared of. They could lead to breakthroughs and great discoveries. See life as an adventure and enjoy every moment of it.!
Life has its own way of making us smile even when you want to give up and lose hope because certain surprises come your way just when you thought you would never smile again.. God’s blessing may come as a surprise, and how much you receive depends on how much your heart can believe. Life is full of surprises. Expect the unexpected. Trust everything to God. Enjoy life.!
Enjoy and be happy.!
Better not to mind the thing that depresses you, cause it only makes you weak inside and out. There’s a lot of things you can give your time into. Don’t get stuck with the thing that ruins your day. Enjoy and be happy.!
Best feeling.....
One of the best feelings in the world is knowing that your presence and absence both mean something to someone.!
Wednesday, 20 February 2013
Tuesday, 19 February 2013
Last Breath;
From those around I hear a cry,
A muffled sob, a hopeless sigh,
I hear their footsteps leaving slow,
And then I know my soul must fly.!
A chilly wind begins to blow,
Within my soul, from head to toe,
And then, last breath escapes my lips,
It's time to leave and I must go.!
So, it is true (But it's too Late)
They said: each soul has its given date,
When it must leave its body's core,
And meet with its eternal fate.
Oh mark the words that I do say,
Who knows? Tomorrow could be your day,
At last, it comes to heaven or hell
Decide which now, do not delay.!
Come on my brothers let us pray,
Decide which now, do not delay.!
Oh God! Oh God! I cannot see.!
My eyes are blind.! am I still me
Or has my soul been led astray,
And forced to pay a priceless fee
Alas to dust we all return,
Some shall rejoice, while others burn,
If only I knew that before
The line grew short, and came my turn!
And now, as beneath the sod
They lay me (with my record flawed),
They cry, not knowing I cry worse,
For, they go home, I face my God.!
Oh mark the words that I do say,
Who knows, tomorrow could be your day,
At last, it comes to heaven or hell
Decide which now, do not delay.!
Come on my brothers let us pray,
Decide which now, do not delay.....!
Monday, 18 February 2013
Real friends;
"Real friends are always going to be there by your side, even at times when you tell them to leave."
If you already have a real friend in your life, then you know that through thick, and through thin, they will always be there for you. Not to judge you, or to tell you that they tried to warn you before, not to bring you down, or kick you while your down, but instead to help pick you up when you fall, or to sit with you and help talk you into getting back up.!
Not all of us have had friends like these and if we want one all we must do is be a friend like this to someone who needs it. If you plant seeds of love, in good faith, and in good hopes, it will be returned into your own life abundantly.!
Be that friend for someone who needs someone by their side. Be that friend for that person going through a bad break up, family problems, or other forms of instability in their own lives, and you will surely find the same in your own life. !
If you already have a real friend in your life, then you know that through thick, and through thin, they will always be there for you. Not to judge you, or to tell you that they tried to warn you before, not to bring you down, or kick you while your down, but instead to help pick you up when you fall, or to sit with you and help talk you into getting back up.!
Not all of us have had friends like these and if we want one all we must do is be a friend like this to someone who needs it. If you plant seeds of love, in good faith, and in good hopes, it will be returned into your own life abundantly.!
Be that friend for someone who needs someone by their side. Be that friend for that person going through a bad break up, family problems, or other forms of instability in their own lives, and you will surely find the same in your own life. !
Life is like a garden.....!
Life is like a garden. Every small work of kindness and every thoughtful gesture is like a tiny seed, and when you plant these seeds, wonderful things can happen. Smiles appear, dreams blossom, and love takes root and grows.!
Promise yourself
Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you.!
The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. Fear of the unknown is our greatest fear. Many of us would enter a tiger's lair before we would enter a dark cave. While caution is a useful instinct, we lose many opportunities and much of the adventure of life if we fail to support the curious explorer within us.!
Beauty of Life
The beauty of life is that while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change. So that every moment is spent, not in regret, guilt, fear or anger, but in wisdom, understanding and love.!
Saturday, 16 February 2013
Realize the value of time.....!
We have not valued time like the way it should be valued. To actually realize the value of one year, ask the student who failed by a grade. To realize the value of one month, ask the mother who gave birth to a premature baby. To realize the value of one day, ask the editor of a daily newspapers. To realize the value of one hour, ask the wife waiting to be wed. To realize the value of one minute, ask the man who just missed the train. To realize the value of one second, ask the person who just avoided an accident. To realize the value of one millisecond, ask the Olympian who qualified for the bronze.!Friday, 15 February 2013
Tuesday, 12 February 2013
Give your hundred percent to everything you do.!
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her.
The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully, but the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral:
If you don't give hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.!
Give your hundred percent to everything you do.!
Care for those few.!
Any person can make you realize how wonderful the world is.! But only few will make you realize how wonderful you are in the world.!
Care for those few.!
Care for those few.!
Monday, 11 February 2013
If nature has made you a giver, your hands are born open, and so is your heart; and though there may be times when your hands are empty, your heart is always full, and you can give things out of that - warm things, kind things, sweet things - help and comfort and laughter - and sometimes kind laughter is the best help of all.!
Sunday, 10 February 2013
Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.!
A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: “I am blind, please help.”
There were only a few coins in the hat.
A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.
Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were.
The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, “Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?”
The man said, “I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.”
What he had written was: “Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.”
Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing?
Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?
Moral of the story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.
Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have thousand reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear.
Great men say, “Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness…. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.”
The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling.....and even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it.!
A great life is not about routine, but doing something rare. To cherish and not to compare. To forgive, not to blame, and to be loving without counting. Laugh at your mistakes, but learn from them. Joke over your troubles, but gather strength from them. Have fun with your difficulties, but overcome them.!
One of the best things about having a true friend is that no matter how far away they are, how long it has been since you've last spoken, or how much has happened in each of your lives, they are never really gone from your heart. They always remain a part of your life – whether you see them everyday or only when they drift in and out through the years.!
Sunday, 3 February 2013
Saturday, 2 February 2013
Friday, 1 February 2013
Be energetic. Never tell yourself, “I am tired!” because the more you accept that thought, the more exhausted you’ll become. Life is a matter of perspective, either you complain because roses have thorns or you rejoice because thorns have roses. It all depends on how you look at it. Life is always beautiful.!
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