Monday, 27 May 2013
Sunday, 26 May 2013
There is no doubt that we have all been through difficult times along our journeys in life. No one person is exempt from feeling pain, grief, struggle, or disappointment. We've all been there and we have all survived. So why the struggles? Why the heartaches? Sadness? Despair? Life lessons. We are all on a very specific path, perfectly laid out for each and every one of us. What one person may consider minor, another may consider major, and what one person may have an easier time overcoming, another may have more difficulties. But each and every day, each experience, whether it be big or small, is to teach us a life lesson, to make us stronger, and more compassionate.!
It is not always possible to go from where you are to where you ultimately want to be instantaneously. I mean it is possible (anything's possible), but the choosing of it feels almost uncomfortable in contrast to what we're currently experiencing.
As weird as it sounds, there is comfort or maybe familiarity is a better word, in misery. If there wasn't, we wouldn't choose it.
We can however, in every moment choose the next best feeling spot that feels achievable. This is how we initiate the evolutionary process. If you just keep taking baby steps towards better and better feeling thoughts and actions, one day you will look back and not even recognize the person you used to be.
You deserve joy and happiness. It is your birthright, simply for showing up on this planet. There is nothing you need to do to earn it or prove your worthiness.!
Saturday, 25 May 2013
We should never judge the intentions of the poor!
98 year old Dobri Dobrev, a man who lost his hearing in the second world war, walks 10 kilometers from his village in his homemade clothes and leather shoes to the city of sofia, where he spends the day begging for money.
Though a well known fixture around several of the city’s churches, known for his prostrations of thanks to all donors, it was only recently discovered that he has donated every penny he has collected - over 40,000 euros - towards the restoration of decaying bulgarian monasteries and churches and the utility bills of orphanages, living instead off his monthly state pension of 80 euros.!
The universe listens to every word, thought and emotion we have. The universe can grant our wishes and help us in everyday life. So, to begin on the spiritual path, all you have to say, straight from the heart, is 'I'm ready!'. The universe will then start about showing you signs (coincidences some people call them) to indicate to you that the universe heard you and is answering the call. The signs will be very subtle, yet obvious, if you are attentive. Number sequences are a very common way that the universe communicates with us as in today's society we are always surrounded by some device that displays numbers. Otherwise, the universe will show you signs that you would understand, in effect it will communicate with you in a language that you understand. You will see, hear, smell or feel certain things when you ask a question in your mind or even out loud. Look out for these signs as this will be the universe giving you your answer.
Be open-minded and attentive and look out for patterns of certain things that are emerging in your life. These will be the universe's attempts to find a dialogue with which you can communicate with it. Once you have established your relationship with the universe; and have recognized the patterns the way the universe is communicating with you then the journey begins.!
The universe will now start to unfold a whole new world to you. Just remain open and watch for the signs. And through these signs you will learn lessons you need to learn, do the things you need to do, and journey to the place in your life you should be.!
Before befriending others, you have to be your own friend. Before correcting others, you have to correct yourself. Before making others happy, you have to make yourself happy. It’s not called selfishness, it’s called personal development. Once you balance yourself, only then can you balance the world around you.!
Friday, 24 May 2013
Thursday, 23 May 2013
Believe in yourself.!
You are a part of creation. You see that majestic mountain with all its glory, the total size alone shows that that it is simply awesome. That rainbow you admired with all those wonderful colours. The seas, raging, wonderful, powerful, it brings up dreams and desires for adventure, romance, and so much more. The stars, the galaxies, the planets, all with their individuality, each of its own amazing character and differences.
Those things are us, you and me. We have different characters. You are an amazing complex biological machine designed to carry your soul throughout your lifetime. The things that your body can do, and simply the way that it can impossibly operate shows that wow, you are something amazing, a wonder to behold.
Your mind is very complex, it has limitless memory storage and limitless thoughts, limitless dreams and desires. Your imagination never runs out of ideas, and if fed positively it can come up the most amazing inventions and ways to do things. If your mind is fed positively then it will function in contented happy mode and the fruits of that are wonderful and wholesome.
It is not that Einstein was amazing, nor was it that the famous scientists, or teachers, or presidents were amazing, because they are you and you are they, because you are made like they were in God's image and you can do everything that they did.
No one before you is better than you at anything and no person with you now is better than you either. So what if you have issues that they point at, underneath peoples false bravado is also their fears, worries and issues. It is those who point and label us that have fears and lack courage so they need to focus on others to defer the attention to what it is that they have done wrong in the past.
Strong people don't point out faults, they find ways to mend people and help them with gentle kindness. Strong people have nothing to fear, no need to be secretive or hide or blame others for their own mistakes and faults.
It is simply that those people that succeeded did what they did because it became a dream, a desire, a want to do something new, something different, to go against the flow, to swim upstream where the adventure lies.
You are no different than any of them. But you must choose, you must desire, you must dream, you must step forth and take that precious walk that will amaze you and amaze those who know you.
You must not let other peoples defeated attitudes stop you from believing what your mind dreams of.!
Just because it won't work out for them does not mean that it won't work out for you. One of the destroyers of a good life is us listening to people who simply don't have a clue. Know that you are a wonder of Creation. Know that God created you with amazing talents and a personal character that makes you stand out from others around you.
Believe in yourself.!
Look around you at the amazing features of Creation and remember always that you are a part of that. You are a wonderful person put here by God to make a difference. You are a forgiven, worthy individual to God and with a good attitude change you can be so many wonderful things to the world.
Keep your life positive, healthy, decent and adventurous, caring and loving and the world will open up to you and fill your heart so much. Be responsible and look after your children and if you make a mess of things clean it up and get right with those who were hurt. Open your heart to forgive always.
Keep you positive. Be comforted with the thought that God is with you and that God will make a way to keep you safe and lead you to the destiny He has for you.!
Those things are us, you and me. We have different characters. You are an amazing complex biological machine designed to carry your soul throughout your lifetime. The things that your body can do, and simply the way that it can impossibly operate shows that wow, you are something amazing, a wonder to behold.
Your mind is very complex, it has limitless memory storage and limitless thoughts, limitless dreams and desires. Your imagination never runs out of ideas, and if fed positively it can come up the most amazing inventions and ways to do things. If your mind is fed positively then it will function in contented happy mode and the fruits of that are wonderful and wholesome.
It is not that Einstein was amazing, nor was it that the famous scientists, or teachers, or presidents were amazing, because they are you and you are they, because you are made like they were in God's image and you can do everything that they did.
No one before you is better than you at anything and no person with you now is better than you either. So what if you have issues that they point at, underneath peoples false bravado is also their fears, worries and issues. It is those who point and label us that have fears and lack courage so they need to focus on others to defer the attention to what it is that they have done wrong in the past.
Strong people don't point out faults, they find ways to mend people and help them with gentle kindness. Strong people have nothing to fear, no need to be secretive or hide or blame others for their own mistakes and faults.
It is simply that those people that succeeded did what they did because it became a dream, a desire, a want to do something new, something different, to go against the flow, to swim upstream where the adventure lies.
You are no different than any of them. But you must choose, you must desire, you must dream, you must step forth and take that precious walk that will amaze you and amaze those who know you.
You must not let other peoples defeated attitudes stop you from believing what your mind dreams of.!
Just because it won't work out for them does not mean that it won't work out for you. One of the destroyers of a good life is us listening to people who simply don't have a clue. Know that you are a wonder of Creation. Know that God created you with amazing talents and a personal character that makes you stand out from others around you.
Believe in yourself.!
Look around you at the amazing features of Creation and remember always that you are a part of that. You are a wonderful person put here by God to make a difference. You are a forgiven, worthy individual to God and with a good attitude change you can be so many wonderful things to the world.
Keep your life positive, healthy, decent and adventurous, caring and loving and the world will open up to you and fill your heart so much. Be responsible and look after your children and if you make a mess of things clean it up and get right with those who were hurt. Open your heart to forgive always.
Keep you positive. Be comforted with the thought that God is with you and that God will make a way to keep you safe and lead you to the destiny He has for you.!
Whether we choose to see it or not, our life is too short to worry about small things. Though some circumstances in our lives at the moment may seem fairly significant, we must realize that the things that are really important are the things that are going to matter in ten to twenty years, or twenty to fifty years. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. We have to choose to live our lives in the present and for the future, instead of trying to live in the past. We must also live our lives doing the things and for the people that we are passionate about. Living a life without passion, and without hope for the future is not really living your life at all. Remember that the next minute, hour, and day are not promised to you, and may be taken from you at any time. Never let anything or any person stop you from pursuing the things that you are truly passionate about pursuing.!
We need people around us who will contribute to our happiness and who will encourage us to try harder. Negative people defeat our attitudes and drain us of strength until we cannot function as we should or as we once use to. Departing from the company of those who are lost, confused and simply focused on themselves is a wise choice.!
Tuesday, 21 May 2013
Confidence and Beliefs
Believe in yourself through tough times.
Believe in your capacity to succeed.
Believe that your relationships are worth the effort.
Believe that people make mistakes on their way to greatness.
Believe that people can be foolish and intelligent, selfish and generous, and stressed and happy all at once.
Believe that very few people hurt others on purpose.
Believe that there are many roads to what’s right.
Believe in your intuition, especially when you have to choose between two good paths.
Believe that the answers are out there waiting.
Believe that life will surprise you again and again.
Believe that the journey is the destination.
Believe that it’s all worth your while
Count your blessings instead of your crosses;
Count your gains instead of your losses.
Count your joys instead of your woes;
Count your friends instead of your foes.
Count your smiles instead of your tears;
Count your courage instead of your fears.
Count your full years instead of your lean;
Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.
Count your health instead of your wealth;
Love your neighbor as much as yourself.
Sometimes beautiful things come into our lives out of nowhere. We can’t always understand them, but we have to trust in them. I know you want to question everything, but sometimes it pays to just have a little faith.!
Monday, 20 May 2013
Sunday, 19 May 2013
Don’t allow your struggle to let you lose hope. Just because things are difficult right now doesn’t mean they will be like this forever. You can and will heal, and whether or not you see it, you’re healing right now. The small steps you take each day may not seem like much, but each day adds up, and before you know it, you’ll have covered more distance than you believed possible. Look back to where you were a year ago. You may not be fully healed, but you certainly aren’t where you once were. You’ve struggled and back tracked and wanted to give up, but you’ve continued to push forward. You’ve made it so far, and despite everything life has thrown at you, you’ve survived. So instead of beating yourself up for not being where you would like to be, take some time today to celebrate where you are. Give yourself credit for growth you’ve achieved, acknowledge the strength it’s taken to get to this place, and have faith that if you keep picking yourself back up, no matter how many times you fall, you will make it.!
Saturday, 18 May 2013
Time is the most deceptive thing. It ticks faster when you are happy, Prolongs when you are in agony and Disappoints when you are waiting in vain. It speeds up when you are hurrying, but slows down in your solitude. It can’t be broken. It can’t be stopped. Once it has passed, you can never go back and change what has already been said and done. The worst thing is when you hear the words, “Time is up,” you can do nothing, but just accept everything.....!
Friday, 17 May 2013
Every day is a new chance to choose. Choose to change your perspective. Choose to flip the switch in your mind from negative to positive. Choose to turn on the light and stop fretting about doubt. Choose to do work that you are proud of. Choose to see the best in others, and to show your best to others. Choose to truly live, right now. Flip the switch.!
Sunday, 12 May 2013
Friday, 10 May 2013
Friday, 3 May 2013
A Mother was reading a magazine and her cute little daughter every now and then distracted her.To keep her busy, she tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. She tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.
She was sure her daughter would take a lot more time and probably whole of day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map.
When she asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, "Oh Mom, there is a man's face on the other side of the paper. I made the face perfect to get the map right." she ran outside to play leaving the mother surprised.
Moral : Perhaps there is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world.!
Whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, Look at the other side and will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem or an acute difficulty.!
Thursday, 2 May 2013
A nice taxi driver wrote:
I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked......'Just a minute’, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90’s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940’s movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.
There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard
box filled with photos and glassware.
‘Would you carry my bag out to the car?’ she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.
She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.
She kept thanking me for my kindness. ‘It’s nothing’, I told her......‘I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.’
‘Oh, you’re such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, ‘Could you drive
through downtown?’
‘It’s not the shortest way,’ I answered quickly......
‘Oh, I don’t mind,’ she said. ‘I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice.
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. ‘I don’t have any family left,’ she continued in a soft voice......’The doctor says I don’t have very long.’ I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.
‘What route would you like me to take?’ I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.
We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.
Sometimes she’d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, ‘I’m tired.Let’s go now’.
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.
Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.
They must have been expecting her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
‘How much do I owe you?’ She asked, reaching into her purse.
‘Nothing,’ I said
‘You have to make a living,’ she answered.
‘There are other passengers,’ I responded.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.She held onto me tightly.
‘You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,’ she said. ‘Thank you.’
I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light......Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life......
I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver,or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.
But great moments often catch us unaware - beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.!
From good things, we learn to be a thankful person. From bad things, we learn to be a strong person. Remember that everything will not go the way you want it to. It's a matter of learning that life isn't handed to you. Stop worrying about what others want. Think about what you want, if you listen too much to what people say about you, you will never be who you really are.!
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